Saturday, April 19, 2008
Today
Well, we did manage to get the darn Care Bear Party stuff this morning.
Boo-boo slept over, she did well, woke up at seven, started wrestling with her favorite bear while growling voraciously. :>)
The plan was for Daddy to go and mow Bugs' lawn, and Bugs would clean her house in preparation for tomorrow's party. After which (she had to be at work at one) they would come by to pick up the baby, so she could spend the day with Daddy.
That was the plan.
Bugs came by to hug Boo at twelve thirty. Announcing that Daddy went to go birthday present shopping with his parents and that he would call me around three when he got home, so I could drive Boo-boo over....
Hair started to stand up on the back of my neck at this point...
At four...no Daddy
At five...no Daddy
At five fifteen I called Bugs...oh boy....this was one pissed off mummy...
In the meantime Boo was getting cranky. So I fed her dinner....then gave her her bath...put on her jammies....
Daddy finally called at six fifteen....
I was tempted to yell at him and tell him she wasn't coming...that it was her bedtime and she should be comfy and cozy in her crib...
No, I behaved, dropped the little thing at Daddy's new house...She was happy to see him...but started to scowl when I left....I hope she didn't cry, didn't get too upset...
I don't even know if Daddy had food or diapers for her, or a change of clothes. I offered to bring them, but got no response...
This crap won't be going on for much longer, I promise you that!
Already told Bugs we needed to have a long sit down TALK.
*sigh*
This baby is the priority here. She need consistency. She need to know who her parents are, what her home is.
She probably thinks Wheelie and I are her parents. she spends most of her time here with us after all.
But...tomorrow is her birthday party...Monday is her actual birthday...Hard to believe we were at the hospital last year....:>)
SGMKJ!
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It's good that Boo has you as a stable influence, even if her parents aren't. Anger at mom or dad will only serve to limit your access to Boo, for they won't want to see you and what they perceive as judgementalism. Be the wise woman I know you are and share your wisdom in kind and loving ways so that you don't burn bridges in ways you might regret. Boo needs you in her life, more than you need to be "right." Just some thoughts from a woman with experience in this area.
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