Wednesday, August 13, 2008

The latest from Dramaville

Last night when Bugs picked up Boo from Daddy's house (where Nana and grandpa had been babysitting her) he wanted to have a talk with her, so outside they went.

He proceeded to beg her to come back to him again, crying, carrying on, extremely upset, hanging on to the baby, not wanting to let her go....

Bugs, as always, again, told him their relationship is over, and he needs to get a grip....

So, like a few months ago, he started calling and messaging her all night.

This morning, right after she dropped the baby off, he started calling her again. Completely messed up, sobbing, crying...

And just a few minutes ago he called her again, told her he quit his job, and he didn't want to live anymore...

I told her to call his parents immediately. They need to take care of this boy, he needs some serious help.

You see, this is exactly what I am afraid of, of him doing harm to himself, or the girls.

Wheelie and I agree, we both think that now that Daddy is basically forced to grow up and take responsibility for himself, he just can't cope. He is just not equipped to deal with this.
It's rather sad, and as a mother I feel so sorry for him.
It's so hard to lose your love, and if you've never really learned to deal with life's pitfalls, well, it's bound to catch up with you...

I hope and pray he doesn't do himself or others irreversible damage.

Without his job/income, he won't be able to pay his child support. Bugs is horrified of the idea of him in prison.

Too much drama?

I don't know.

It just scares the hell out of me. How often do you read this stuff in the news paper. Of situations like this ending in death.

I hope this boy's parents will drag him to a doctor. He needs care, and he needs them.

And so it goes.....never a dull moment....

SGMKJ!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Is that all there is? I hope that life works out for ALL involved! This is the last thing that anyone needs. Love has many paths...I hope that he finds the right people to lead him in the right way. Thinking of you all.. Iggie

Joann said...

You have to wonder what kind of "love" this kind of love is? The drama is all too common with guys who are immature. I'm sorry his immaturity is bringing chaos to your family. It might be wise to limit visits to his parents right now while he's unstable. I know they help with childcare but sometimes it's just easier to pay for care than endure the craziness. I'll hold you all in prayer.